So.
It went like this.
I walked into the sauna today after the wonderful "just keep swimming" swim lesson.
I say "how are ya" to the man in the sauna.
"In a lot of pain" was his reply.
A few minutes go by of "sauna-ing" and I ask "does the sauna help your pain?"
His reply "no - not really. I just come in here because I've gotten in saunas for about 30 years".
Silence. End of conversation.
I thought - that's crazy.
Have you ever been in a sauna. It's called a sauna because it's really really hot in there.
As a matter of fact - this one's thermometer was reading 150 degrees. That's hot.
So, I stayed in for a while - thinking about the guy that was in there - not because of the benefits of the sauna - rather because it was his 30 year old habit...he didn't know why he did it anymore, other than he has always done it.
Habits.
They are funny things - huh.
Sitting there, I thought about my life - then yours...hence this blog.
I sat & thought for a while - "what habits are in my life - serving no purpose at all?". They are just that - habits.
Not only are they serving no purpose - they possibly are holding me (or you) from starting on something else more beneficial.
They say, if you practice a "new" habit for 30 days - it will be ingrained in your life. That's bull.
It takes something more than practicing it.
It takes being committed to it - over & over & over again.
It takes finding the value in the "new" more than it takes finding the lack of value in the "old".
It takes starting over & over - until...you do it without even thinking about it.
Like walking into a 150 degree sauna - for no reason other than that's what he's done for all those years.
I eventually walk out - leaving the guy in there - still sitting because that's what he's done for about 30 years or so.
So, with that, I leave you & me with a question...or 2.
What habits are in my/your life that need to be changed? That are serving no real purpose. That are even holding us back form a new habit - more beneficial for our life now. That maybe somewhere in the past, you started out on - only to go back to the old because you thought it would be easier than it was.
The sauna is hot - at least know why you are sitting in it.
peace
b
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1 comment:
Thanks B. ~A~
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